Practical Techniques
Technique 1: Verbal Discussion Followed by Written Summary
Combine spoken conversation with a documented record:
- Have the primary discussion verbally to allow for nuance and immediate feedback.
- Follow up shortly after with a brief email, text, or note summarizing key decisions, action items, or important dates.
- Frame the summary neutrally: “Just confirming our discussion…” or “Notes from our conversation…”
This approach caters to both auditory and visual processors and creates a reference point.
Technique 2: Visual Aids During Verbal Communication
Enhance spoken conversations with visual supports:
- Use whiteboards or shared screens during meetings to jot down key points as they arise.
- Refer to calendars or schedules when discussing dates and deadlines.
- Use simple diagrams or sketches to illustrate complex ideas.
- Provide agendas beforehand for important discussions.
Visual aids anchor verbal communication and improve focus and retention.
Technique 3: Layered Communication for Critical Information
Use a sequence of channels for vital messages:
- Verbal: Initial discussion or announcement.
- Written: Follow-up email or memo with details.
- Visual: Reminder on a shared calendar, project board, or physical noticeboard.
- Confirmation: Brief check-in (“Did you see the note about X?”) or request for acknowledgment.
This layered approach maximizes the chances of the information being received and processed.
Why These Approaches Work
These techniques work because they:
- Accommodate different individual learning and processing styles.
- Provide repetition and reinforcement without simple nagging.
- Create tangible records that reduce reliance on memory alone.
- Address potential attention or retention issues associated with selective hearing.
- Increase clarity and reduce misunderstandings.
Tailor to the Audience
Choose channels that are accessible and regularly used by the recipient. Introducing unfamiliar technology as a communication channel can sometimes create new barriers.
Additional Considerations
- Keep written summaries concise and focused on essential information.
- Ensure consistency across different channels to avoid confusion.
- For complex topics, allow time for processing information received through different channels.
- Consider the formality of the situation when choosing channels (e.g., text vs. formal memo).
Related Tips & Concepts
See also: Breaking Through Selective Hearing, Establishing Communication Ground Rules, Understanding Selective Hearing